Today is my dream day. I’m finally able to get a new cell phone with a new cell phone carrier. The last two years have mostly been a cell phone nightmare (ask any of my family members and close friends), and I’m relieved it’s about to be over. For the last couple of months I’ve been using what I call my “bridge phone”: it’s an unlocked phone I bought on eBay just to get me through to today, when I go and pick up an iPhone 5s. Whee!
The boys are pretty excited about today, too. (Jim’s phone is company-provided so the only thing he’s excited about regarding today is that the temperatures are going to be in the mid- to upper-40s so he can take a bike ride outside.)
D will be getting a Moto X (I have to say that I considered that for a minute, too!), and J…well, J is not getting a smart phone.
Huh? I know.
I have an eighteen-year-old who is over-the-moon excited to get a dumb phone. Jim and I have tried to talk him out of it because we think he’ll regret that decision, but he isn’t having any of it. We ended up—because I don’t want him to be stuck for two years—buying him a new-in-box dumb phone that was produced a few years ago, the Samsung Juke. He picked it out himself, on eBay.
The phone arrived a few days ago and it was like Christmas. Well, it WAS Christmas, but we don’t celebrate Christmas so…anyway, you know what I mean. He is super-psyched, and I feel good about the fact that if he regrets his dumb phone preference, he’ll be able to get a smart phone anytime because the upgrade he’s due as a new customer will be saved for him.
I thought it would be fun to interview him so we can all get a peek into his thought process behind this decision.
Me: So, a dumb phone. WHY?
J: Do you want me to be funny or serious?
Me: You can be however you want. Seriously funny is fine.
J: Well, I’m always seriously funny.
Me: I know. Okay, answer the question. Why a dumb phone?
J: Because who wouldn’t want a cell phone that can do this? *flips phone*
Me: That’s it?????
J: *sigh* Because this is the first time in two years that I’ll have a phone that is competent at completing calls and texts in a user-friendly and satisfying way.
Me: But don’t you think you’ll miss being able to play games and use your social media apps?
J: I haven’t played games on my smart phone in months, and I can always get Facebook and Twitter notifications sent directly to my phone. I’ll be able to check those on my computer anyway.
Me: Let’s say you DO end up regretting your decision and change your mind about wanting a smart phone. Will you attempt to stuff those feelings so I don’t tease you about it, or will you just come out and tell me?
J: If I end up regretting not going with a smart phone then, well…we don’t really need to worry about that because that’s not going to happen anyway.
So, there you have it.
The funny thing is, the more I think about it I think it’s sort of awesome that this kid, who is a college freshman, is doing away with the distractions a smart phone can provide. Living in the moment? Yes, please.
In fact, maybe I should reconsider and get a dumb phone.
Nahhhhh.
By the way, we’re pretty serious about cell phones around here. My kids even had to sign a contract before they could get their first phone, way back in the day. Click here to see our parent-kid cell phone contract; feel free to customize it for your own use!
2 Comments
Patty
I considered getting a dumb phone but I couldn’t do it because I’d lose my free unlimited internet plan and candy crush. I just can’t give up the candy crush!
Wishing you and your family an AMAZING new year! xoxo
Michelle
Soooo who did you end up going with for your carrier? Inquiring minds want to know
And not just because I want a new phone… though I do! Happy New Year!